writersoul – I get what you are saying, and my kids never watched tv or videos of any kind but I still don’t hold a candle to my own parents!
As an aside, even if I DID let them watch, it would never have been 613 torah avenue for reasons that aren’t worth bringing up. Apparently some people get bothered when I say that I was careful about what I exposed my kids to even if I make no comment about what they do with theirs.