Of course while there may be 21 year olds who are mature, by and large I don’t think I would say any 21 year olds I know are ready to get married, and with the way things work so quickly that is likely to happen sooner or later. If the guy has strong yetzer harah, yes, try to get him married, but why should a young man not experience being adult before finding himself having to deal with matters of love and livelihood at such a young age?
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