Your desperate situation calls for positive immediate action on your part to help your wife and yourself.
Move to Boro Park near Maimonides Hospital and go on public assistance. You will get your rent paid and food stamps and Tomchei Shabbos and aides for your wife. In addition you and your wife can eat out for free at the Masbia restaurants every meal. Declare bankruptcy and erase your debts. If you still need to supplement your income, there are dozens of shuls and simcha halls where you can collect funds from generous Yiden.
And you won’t be alone as there are many who do this. Go to any grocery store in Boro Park and you will observe most purchases are done with a Benefits card.
Get hooked up to a shul with a Rav and shiurim and your set.
Let me know if you need more info, but do this immediately.