2cool: #1 Please read the book, including the one page intro. It’s seven chapters, less than 150 pages. A chapter a day and you’ll be done in a week. What is there to lose? There’s all to gain!
I can try to repeat some of what he says, but I don’t know if it’ll be helpful or the opposite.
Is it by every person, or only a specific person? Is it on date #1 or only when things get serious?