PBA -“What is so shocking, is that even men accept it as fact, because it is told to them so confidently, and with such simple evidence like that girls date at 19 while boys date at 23. Nobody even stops to consider whether it is true at all, or any contrary evidence, like chassidim where the boys get married at 18.”
I believe that this is true more often than not.
Our generation in general has trouble becoming mature -boys and girls.
But I think that girls 18 -25 are more mature than boys the same age in the Frum world. The reason being a girl this age usually has mature responsibilities, eg. work, but a guy in Yeshiva doesn’t have any mature responsibilities. He does the same thing that he’s been doing since he started school as a little kid.