I would say that for me, I also live out of town and do not really get the opportunity to go to ny. I have gotten 20+ suggestions over the past year. I ended up getting two phone dates with one person out of it. I said no to some guys and some guys said no to me. I think that the key thing is that you need to network. Also, every time that you go to another city, even if it is a smaller community- like St. Louis or Memphis, to try to ask about meeting at least one shadchan on your trip.
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