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Patur Aval Assur -“The ??? ???? quotes an answer that min hadin a woman does not have to get married at all and “??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ????” is an eitzah tovah.

So to conclude, there are definitely grounds to argue that a woman is not obligated to get married. DaasYochid, the thing that bygirl93 said “correct me if I’m wrong” on was ??? ????, so even if you are right that there is a different obligation, bygirl93 was still correct and therefore you were not actually correcting her for being wrong. However, the lashon you used was “that is not the only reason to get married” which does not necessarily indicate that you think that there is an obligation to get married, but merely a reason to get married. But Health explicitly stated that there is an obligation, so this post is primarily a response to him, pointing out that it’s not so pashut.”

I know the ??? ???? & it’s a Chiddush; not Pashut P’shat in the S’A!

From the topic that I started:

“Who wants to be a Tzadaikes like Rus?”

“Health,

moi aussi -“Shulchan Aruch, Even HaEzer 1:13:

“lo teshev isho belo ish shelo techoshed”

a woman should not remain without a husband because of suspicion”

Yes, this is the way we Pasken!

“Hilchot Issurei Biyah

“shelo yiso zoken yalda shedovor zeh gorem l’znus”

an old man shall not marry a young woman as this will lead to adultery”

Mentioned above previously -it says Yalda -a girl less than 12, not young woman!

“Yevamot 101b

“k’lech etsel shekmosech ve’al tachnis ketata letoch beisech”

a man shall marry a woman of his age and not bring strife into his home”

This was discussed on page 1 & 2 of this topic! Please read all posts before posting.

“Hilchot Issurei Biyah 21:26

“reshus le’isho shelo tinoseh le’olam”

a woman has permission not to ever marry”

The Rambam is a Rishon. We Pasken like the Shulchan Aruch.

“Reb Akiva Eiger

In a place where there’s no suspicion, a woman has no obligation to marry”

This means a town with No men or just Men whom can’t have kids. In other words bascially an all Women town.

So it comes out a Woman has a CHIYUV to get married!”