My issue is there is a pervasive attitude of an unwillingness to take responsibility for things in life and “blaming” it on God instead. There is always a level of responsibility.
There is also a pervasive attitude of always trying to find a deeper meaning to the extent that things that happen aren’t treated as real. Also, there is a tendency to try and overstep our bounds as to what we can know.
Here’s how I view tragedies. God is trying to tell us something. We have no idea what. Look inside at yourself and what you have to fix and fix it.