golfer: Why are the other husbands looking?
Most women who know that their husbands are already ogling every other woman on the street, feel that there is no need to dress special for their husband. Many do anyway, because their tzidkaniyos but they resent that they feel their husbands don’t deserve it.
If the rabbanim want the women to dress more tzniusly, they should talk to the men about shmiras einayim, at least as much as they talk to the men to convince them to bully their wives to not wear A-line skirts.