I thought everyone says good shabbos to evrryone, despite the gender, i do. But maybe cuz im used to a small comunity where everyone knows each other.
But non-jewish/secular music these days has a not so apprpriate style. Ill admit that there are okish songs, i perdonally went through a fase where i listened to only 1 artist of secular music that was ok. But im saying okish secular music can lead to really bad secular music. Just like how a mitzah leads to another mitzvah and an aveirah leads to another aveirah.