hey you cant comment really unless you have been there .
sleepless nights
self guilt
it is a little harder sometimes when the abuse is from the same gender
there is an organization called JCW . I really wish I can talk to him and just like say its not your fault . You should not have been shunned .
And he can still get help.
My abuser was a woman bh . in a way so I have no evidence really I went to the police and they were really intimidating and I ate my words . that happened in 7th grade .
I was never told that it was wrong .
I mean imagine this I went all day in school without using the bathroom because I was terrified because one day my teacher took advantage of me and the abuse continued for the whole school year .
180 days ! And I feel so sad for the little girl who was uprooted before she got a chance to bloom . I never had a childhood after that .
He didn’t go of the derech . People kicked him off of it . Because they rejected him when he got help .
I pray Hashem should help him. but I also wish that we didn’t have to deal with the abuse it is also verbal .
there is the shame as well