haleivi- stalker is the word i was thinking but couldnt put my finger on! So i subbed creep 🙂
sem613- very true. But fkelly didnt specify if it was s/o she knew well or just knew and connected the dots, which does happen also
fkelly- it’s a point to consider, but not sure a big enough concern to not let them know? Dunno. CR care to opine?