different for everyone, maybe i just gain and you dont, i dont mean that in a mean way, but maybe some people go on just to have fun, and some other people go on for other reasons, like gaining. in what way, thats different for every person as well. its subjective.
joseph: yes, there was a fire 2 nights ago in my house. Baruch Hashem, everyone got out OK, as i mentioned before i was up that late because of YWN CR. it was pretty scary, theres a lot of damage, but as i said, Baruch Hashem. it could have been worse.