Reply To: Shidduchim again

Golfer -“On a different note, I was very disturbed to read nishtdayng’s reply to Health. Mr nishdayn, perhaps you meant no offense, but I took offense and am worried that most likely Health did as well. To imply that there’s an underlying reason outside of his disability for his lack of success in shidduchim, without knowing him personally, is very wrong.

And to you Health, I think it’s very sad but true that many (if not most) people are reluctant to look past a disability when looking for a husband or wife.”

I believe that you’re both wrong. I had trouble before I got disabled. They look at disability as another Chessorone (problem) amongst others. I know this because I have friends who always get rejected. It’s very common for me & them to get “No” for an answer when it comes to a Shidduch!