Health, unlike nishtdayng, you certainly do know yourself, so of course I”ll take your word for it.
Do you think you know the reason that you and your friends are getting rejections often?
Something tells me we’re going to have a hard time blaming this on all of your mothers (as the guys’ mothers are apparently to blame for most or all of what goes wrong in shidduchim)…
There are an awful lot lot of threads here dedicated to the idea that girls are the ones getting all the abuse.
As a guy, do you have an idea what the problem is?
And here’s a hypothetical question for everyone else-
If we do send all the mothers away on vacation, how will things change? Will all the not so thin, not so pretty girls suddenly find themselves with tons of guys chasing after them? Will the crisis end? Will the per capita rate of weddings go up? Will the cost of weddings go down? Will the fathers, now left fielding the calls and taking care of things, have that same familiar feeling they once had the time the mothers left them with five or six rambunctious little ones (three in diapers) for an afternoon?