aussie, yes she is someone I could count on, technically. Like I said before, she a psychology buff and everything has a term. Its not much fun unloading your life and have someone tell you they named a condition for it. Anyway, I dont really talk, I have my life (enough meat for a nice conversation) but theres nothing she can really help me with. Only G-d can. Other than that, things dont build up, so there isn’t much to discuss, and I probably wouldn’t go to her anyway.
Update: She started asking me if I saw the texts from last night (which I never responded to) and (thankfuly) someone just butt in out of nowhere and asked me something and totally changed the course of the conversation. She didn’t ask me again because I basically avoided (eye) contact with her. One thing that I’m very proud of myself about (I really shouldn’t be because it wasn’t the best way,) but during class there was a group outside talking (very loud, teacher couldn’t teach.) Teacher went outside to try and quiet everyone, and she (my “friend”) said VERY loudly “this is wrong!!!” I turned around (screaming a little, but in a VERY strong voice, not typical of me) that she has no right to say anything like that in public and its lashon hara to use that as an example. I think she was very taken aback that I was able to talk to her that way. (I think the one or two people who saw me do it were also. Its funny someone told me randomly today, before this took place, that she never heard me yell.) She seemed to be a little quieter (a little) for some time after. I hope she realized something.
sorry, mod! 🙂