yeah, I was trying to establish the fact that you do want to change, even if you may not realize it. and btw, its not that the questions are unrealistic, they are, you’re probably just not at the point yet where you realize that it is. just one thing, one day, hopefully soon, something will happen to differentiate your life right now from the time as you say when you’re 30, Shomer Shabbos and married with a kid(s) and this “change” might not hit you in the face, so please remember this cyber-ville conversation and look for it becuase I think enough of you wants to change to actually do something, its just that you have a very strong opposing side, (which will hopefully lose strength as you get older) but if you’re not looking out for it, you’re stuck because no ones dropping a pail of water on you with any signs in life, and there is no one in this world, as wonderful as they may be, that can change you, aside from yourself.
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