Generally, if a boy very strongly wished he would be able to learn after marriage, he would only go out with someone who has a good job or whose parents could provide support.
Or he would push off getting married. Ha Lan Ha Lehu.
And what does a girl who very strongly wants to establish a learning/kollel home, but doesn’t have the wherewithal to support it, do?
She becomes a shidduch crisis statistic.
Its amazing that its come to the point where working is considered less desireable than taking from Tzdekah and a Gemach
(See PBA, managed to invoke Godwin!!)