You can ask others, but make sure the person really is qualified to give sound advice. If something doesn’t seem or feel right to you, own up to it.
Truly bad advice has been given leading to disastrous relationships.
Once the wedding’s over, all they’ll do is tsk if they hear of a broken marriage.
It’ll be you who suffers.
Take your time and be smart about your choices.
Do not ignore that little voice.
That just may be H’ nudging you in a particular direction.