Wolf, there’s another side as well, namely, that the chosson and kallah get there own web page with their picture and names and location. For someone who is sensitive to modesty, this is far worse than being in the background of a picture, or even the subject of one of your carnival shots (especially since there are people who enjoy looking up the latest simchas).
I think you are you’re sensitive to your subjects, and I don’t think either of the types of shots you take are what generally makes people such as the OP irate.
ZD, I have issues with how you view certain groups, not with how you treat individuals.
Sam, see my parenthetical point above to Wolf. Although the intent is surely more innocent, do you really doubt that there’s something often mixed in which doesn’t come from a good place?