People, i think there is a confusion here: Coming to the girl in a car has two aspects.
-“Dating”, i.e conversing in the car, on the way to and from the city.
– Going to a dating place (in the city) by car.
As far as the first aspect is concerned i agree that cars cant be replaced by MTA. BUT the date does not have to start under the girl’s porch! They can decide to meet straight in a resto in the city. And separate there. But here also can be a jappy problem, if the girl doesnt want to dirty her stiletto heels on the train floor, but again they could dress less formal…..