Patur, if you see a boy drowning you will jump in and save him. (Right?) Will you be doing that because of fame, money or exercise? Will you have any motive in mind other than that it just simply has to be done?
When you arrange things for someone you love, while assuming they will never become aware of what you’ve done, what is your motivation?
It makes for a nice philosophical discussion but it’s not anymore about this Mishna or theology.