MDD: And that is exactly what you should be telling tendler. He is the one who apparently cannot tolerate any opinion but his own, and goes to the goyim to force it on us.
I don’t have a problem with his opinion. I have a problem with his being a malshin. And a rasha. If he is so sure he is right, let him convince the gedolim. The litvish gedolim don’t even hold you need MBP; let him try to convince them to get involved. No, he goes straight to the goyim on his own gasus haruach. Well, that’s what takes him out of machane yisroel.
And I have to add; it is so liberating to be able to tell lashon hara about someone! There is no way this guy is a tinok shenishba–he is Rav Moshe’s son in law! Ah, this is so geshmak; I should really save it for shabbos.