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🍫Syag Lchochma
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what part of my post said i looked at my neighbors? I guess if you can’t disagree with the content, you make up something i didn’t say.

I have to laugh at you calling me a liberal. I am so far from liberal that I couldn’t even name their leaders. I would love to help you understand where you get that highly false impression tho, if you can step back for a second and listen because you arent the only one who misthinks that.

There are posters here who are very extreme in their views and are often harsh in their tone. I believe that they are so used to being in homogenous settings that they do not realize just how harsh they are sounding. When I try to defend the words of the person they are attacking, i am often confused by you and others as defending the persons views. I am not. Just doing damage control. perhaps you cannot imagine why i would defend a person who i disagree with. sometimes i’m just disagreeing with the harsh or incorrect attitude even tho i personally follow the same doctrine. you misread that as disagreement with the lifestyle. Or perhaps you are telling me that the fact that i think your harshness is wrong is, in and of itself, liberal. I doubt it, but who knows.

I can’t imagine that was explained well enough to be clear. I used to care that i was misread but honestly, i know who i am and i know what Torah requests of me and i am not going to stop defending people who are hurt just because others cant separate the two.