i agree with HaLeiVi and yayin.
i cant believe you are all making so many assumptions about someone from one comment. If he said to her, “You know what, you sound like my ex-wife”, then that is surely an issue. but if it was in a different context it may not have been. And he didn’t say he dropped out of anger management, or that it was last week. What if it was years ago and he is a new person? I would almost be more concerned about a girl who tells two bits of a story to the CR and wants advice about the rest of her life. But then again, i am assuming this isnt the only place she has turned.
altho i think this thread is more for entertainment then direction, people need to be VERY careful before they shter a shidduch. especially when you are giving such definitive statements about an unknown situation.