I would be cautious. His reference to his ex and comparison to you on the second date, presumably when he is trying to impress you, and presumably NOT meant to be a flattering comparison, reveals a red flag. I would not proceeed without further information. He may be better now after therapy, than in his first marriage, but you need more information. And if you see any signs of extreme anger (how he deals with wait staff for example), I wouldn’t continue. Otherwise, find out more. He may have learned from his first experience.
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