Reply To: Deceiving by super quick engagement and wedding

Basically, they try to see and talk to the chassan as little as possible, and will limit the exposure to the chassan to all their family or visa versa until the engagement is made public and a ring is on the finger.

Then, once they actually get to know each other they break it off or divorce.

I know people are anxious to get married, but sometimes waiting and not deceiving yourself is for your and the other person’s good.