Joseph,
Anything which can cause such an argument is probably best avoided.
What are you doing on an online forum altogether, then?
Emphasis on the word “such an argument”
shtarksfardi, The top shiurim in South Fallsburg and Torah Vodaas are in yiddish, but TV has an English alternative.
Bochurim don’t typically go to Mir straight out of high school but it’s not totally uncommon.
For the top yeshiva in America, I can’t tell you. Of the three you mentioned, I would reckon Toras Moshe, but a lot depends on the personality of the bochur, as well.
EDIT: Also, just to clarify, I’m referring to the Toras Moshe in Eretz Yirsrael (R’ Moshe Meiselman). I don’t know of any other yeshiva by such a name.