Negiah is probably unfortunately true for many, I don’t know about zmanim and tzeddakah, can you be more specific?
Zmanim: The unfortunate lack of respect for Zman Tefilah, both from the Chassidim and the 10:00 Shachris crowd during Bein Hazmanim.
Tzeddakah – The much ignored Halachos of Kedimah brought in Shulchan Aruch. Have you (not personally, but the one ignoring the Halacha) ever asked your Rov to which types of organization/person you should be giving the bulk of your funds (instead of Kupat Hair (for curing MPB) or other Tzedakos with glossy ads or huge auctions)?
You can modify to “Fedora or Homburg”.