DY, this is my best rendition:
‘Talmud hoya shematahare es hashrotzim b’150 tamim’. Yidishkeit was perpetuated not from Shulchan Urach but from ‘al titosh toras imaycha…’ I dress as I do because thats how my father, grandfather, etc. etc. did. And that’s why my children, grandchildren and b’h great grandchildren dress the same. As opposed to your derech of changing. Your grandparents or somewhere earlier down the line were like us. Then along came MO to accomodate or save (which was necessary then…), then centrist, then OO (kofim gemutim, no matter which way you put it.) Would the holy Chasam Soifer, Igros Moshe, Noda B’Yehuda etc. etc. allow a Baptist minister in the beis medrash?)