She told me that her mother had a stack of resumes ad hashamayim, and every few days she’d look into another girl. She could kind of decide to say no for any random reason, until she found the “perfect” girl.
This kind of mentality is the reason that so much of what is wrong with shidduchim is blamed on the boy’s mother.
Is that her fault? What should she do if she has a stack of resumes? Pick the worst one? Do eeny meeny miny mo?