JIB-I agree with you.
Its not the heels that make or break a shidduch. It’s the type of girl who doesnt bother with heels on a first date is simply not the type of girl he is looking for. She is just to “simple” for him; he is looking for a more “ditzy” type.
Why is this so hard for all you posters to understand?!
I am not saying that simplicity is bad, its actually a wonderful trait; but its not for JIB!
Can you understand that a girl who doesnt wear makeup is not for every boy? I think we all can. This is the exact same. Would you prefer that he marries a simple girl and never finds her attractive? Its not the heels, its the fact that she is more the simplistic type who doesnt bother wearing heels.