The blue shirt is a bad comparison. The color of the shirt represents a certain Hashkafah in yiddishkeit (people from yeshiva gedola, Mir, Chaim Berlin would not wear one, while someone with more relaxed standards might) whereas, heels vs. flats represents a focus on materialistic externalities. You’re right. This girl probably isn’t for you. You need the girl who really focuses on similar things. I only hope you are earning a VERY good living, because it’s likely that the girl you’ll wind up with will drain your pockets silly shopping! I think you should tell the shadchanim that heels are a non-negotiable, if that’s how you feel. The girl might wind up making the decision for you.
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