Lo yihei deburcha beshabbos kidiburcha bechol
… and how far does that go? If I ask Eeees to pass me the salt during the week, can I no longer do so on Shabbos using those exact same words? Am I not allowed to tell her “I love you” because I do so during the week? Should I not call my kids to the table by name, since I do that during the week too?
you do not have to like it that is the halacha shabbos is lo yom vlo layla its SHABBOS
It’s not a halacha. It’s brought down in M”B that the Shelah says that he received a tradition this way. In other words, it’s nice and a good thing to do, but certainly not halacha to the point where one who does not do so is a machallel Shabbos.
If you can show me where it’s an actual halacha where it says it’s absolutely forbidden to do so, I’ll consider a retraction.
The Wolf