DY, the Halacha is not like you (Shulchan Aruch Even HaEzer 21,3 – and note that it is even wothy to do so).
You seem to not understand what I said.
Ubiquitin, thank you.
Flatbusher, they are asking for a picture of the girl; whether it’s the boy or his mother (or both) looking is anyone’s guess.