My main question is really, why can bochurim talk on the phone loudly or run in the street and if women do so we are told it is untzuyisdik. It’s doesn’t seem to be equal. Bochurim can act like pigs and we are expected to act like princesses.
Real answer – The bochrim know better, so if someone told them something stupid, they would ask to see proof of it in Shulchan Aruch or Poskim, and then when that someone demurs, laugh the guy out of Bais Medrash. Noshim Daatan Kalos, and they are tought to accept what they are told, so they listen because “someone told them”.