If what you’re trying to say is that he’s not “the man of your dreams,” most people don’t marry “the man of their dreams.” (I would’ve said that no one does, but I was afraid of getting some dispute from engaged people in the CR.)
Everyone has this “image” in their head of what their “one” will look and be like. That image can be very destructive in shidduchim, since the real “one” is usually very different from that image. The question is, are we foolish enough to bypass our zivug because of that?
If that is the problem you’re facing, I know it’s not an easy one to shake, but work on it as much as you can.