OOM – I don’t disagree. I was just trying to be dan lkaf zchus that he wasn’t insulting anyone.
You got me thinking though, I am not really sure where I stand on this whole thing, I have boys and I send them to shul when they are ready to daven but not before then. My daughter used to go to shul every week but doesn’t always. Even if she doesn’t go, sleeping in is not an option. Do I think she should go? I’m not sure anymore. Whether or not she is helping me isn’t really the issue, whether or not she davens is. And depending on what you do/think/hear in shul, maybe staying home isn’t so bad.