ocho: Do you understand why people are deriding you instead of helping you? Imagine if you walked into the fanciest restaurant in the world and you order one of everything on the menu. Then you proceed to spit at the food and claim it all tastes awful. Now since it makes no sense that the best restaurant serves nothing but garbage, it must instead be a problem with your taste.
That’s kind of what it looks like from our perspective. It’s not a question of there being no good looking girls out there, it’s a question of bafflement as to how a normal frum guy cannot seem to find anyone attractive.