Torah613Torah, let me offer my version of your analogy.
Say a hundred people walk into a bakery, each to buy a loaf of bread, but find only ninety loaves on the shelf. Will they panic?
Well, that depends. If the baker is still there, has ample supplies, and will profit enough to make it worth his while to bake an additional ten loaves (and the customers know this) then they will not panic.
If they have seen in the past that he won’t bake any more than his allotment, or don’t know, they might panic.
Obviously, the people panicking are not confident that His plan is to have a shidduch for everyone.