Joe -“And it was one of the Gedolei Yisroel that stated that 99% of the divorces in the frum world were avoidable and unnecessary”
This is unfortunately true. But the opinion in this topic that it can be avoided by either spouse is not reality!
People like to get involved for one side or the other. The best thing for people to do is find an impartial therapist when considering such thing as divorce!