“Abusive husbands represent a very small percent of the overall divorce rate in the frum community. “
NOT TRUE
I know a whole community of single women, many of them already b”H happily remarried, who were married to abusive men. Personally, and this is anecdotal, 99% of the divorcees I know were married to either abusive, or mentally/emotionally unwell spouses. Yiddishe mammas by and large don’t say good by to their husbands because they didn’t take out the garbage! And NO ONE is in a position to judge.