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Friends and relatives only get involved when they find out about it. The course teaches the couple to resolve the problem between themselves and not reveal their problems to others. I am not a sitting -chair quarterback, I am trying to find a solution to the problem of divorces in the community. There is a price society pays for all these divorces.
For example,I have a divorcee living on my block with three adult children, although they started out frum and went to yeshiva everyone is off the derech. They fights with themselves and the neighbors and the police have been called and have made numerous arrests at the home in order to maintain the peace. I believe, if the father would have had a greater influence on his children’s life growing up they might still be frum and not have problems with the police. While I will agree that not every divorce results in such dramatic problems many do.