Reading some of the posts here again reinforces why each person should have a Rav to ask, and not rely on the “poskim” who inhabit the CR. A Rav is able to see and interpret shades of gray within black and white, while several of the posters here obviously can’t.
Perhaps one day they will learn that lesson.
I also don’t have a perfect family – I have non-Jewish relatives. But many of their kids are halachically Jewish. The Wolf is undeniably correct in what he wrote here.