Notasheep, so you know people who work crazy hours and still make early Shabbos. Good for them.
Well, I know someone who works crazy hours and can’t make early Shabbos. His name is popa_bar_abba. His life is apparently not the same as your father’s, husband’s, or friends’ husbands’. You, for some reason, think it is, and that is an assumption, and frankly, I have no idea why you insist on making it.