I wish people who object could just look at it a little more objectively.
YOU are the one looking at it subjectively.
objectively the only question is what do the Poskim and Gedolim tell us is the correct behavior re this matter.
they HAVE spoken about this because there are important Halachic considerations and on this there is a difference of opinion.
YOU on the other hand have determined the correct course of action based on your own personal analysis.