If you mean the chevra is coming around because I said that if I had a son in shidduchim now (or it this is the conventional wisdom still when my sons are there) that I would have them start going out with girls within the guidelines let me make this clear: I think the approach is incorrect, I think people are missing the forest for the trees, I think the crisis is largely due to people being out for money, their image, etc. and not shalom bayis and preparing their kids adequately. BUT, BUT since so many people I respect were behind NASI, and since the suggestion that boys at least try, when they start out dating to stick with the guidelines is fairly innocuous I am willing to do that.
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