Reply To: Defining “The Shidduch Crisis”

It’s not a matter of the rebbe dictating to the bochur.

Haven’t you been shoel eitzah with a rebbe? Ultimately, a major part of the Rebbe’s answer is based on the particulars of that bochur’s situation and how the bochur feels about it, but the rebbe guides the bochur to eliminate the unimportant factors and focus on what matters for the decision.