(In a rush)
I think the info the age gap theory is working off of is missing something, and thats been my point the entire time.
Irrelevant and flawed because you say they are? IIRC, rich dude mentioned in the Mishpacha article that we should look into unexplored options like baalei teshuva, so it seems he agrees that these numbers don’t include everything either.
I’ve asked about eight times so far if there are more singles currently than in the past, and I never said that you made it up, only that you’re supporting something which is very questionable.
You say you (age gappers) are in this to promote shidduchim and as far as I’m concerned, someone genuinely interested would acknowledge the glaring loopholes, and say that we need a comprehensive study to assess things fully. I havent seen that once. Only no answers.