Matan: As DY said, they’re not married to each other yet so it is inappropriate for the choson and kalah to be having a joint discussion on this topic. Additionally, the instructions are different for the choson than for the kallah. And furthermore, the topic itself is even inappropriate for a teacher of the opposite gender to teach it. (And whatever gender the teacher is, he/she will be the opposite of either the choson or the kallah.)
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